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Motivation Monday: Ft Gary Vaynerchuk, Brendon Burchard and Les Brown

12/4/2016

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Motivation Monday: Ft Jack Ma, Dwayne Johnson and Les Brown                                                                                   

11/27/2016

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Why Saying "I Want To" Is Effecting Your Ability To Progress

11/24/2016

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       Everyday you hear people say "I want to" and once you say this, it becomes just a thought in your head and not something that your mind predominantly thinks about. It lacks the attention and focus to create the path that you will design in order to achieve that certain plan or goal. Throughout your day, questions are always being asked. The way you answer it is usually the more focus you put on to it. What I mean by this is, when you say "I want to", you are moving this further into the future. There is no structure around it; there's also no real established date and time. In the current moment, it might feel like its a good thought or idea that you are focusing on and maybe even preaching it to your peers. But what you are really doing is allowing yourself to feel temporary self-gratification. Once you are done talking about the certain topic, your mind will divert to something else. This creates constant let downs and leaves you frustrated and dissatisfied. The constant use of "I want to" will leave you running in circles, year by year and day by day. People will ask you, "why don't you do this", or state that "we should do this", and if your constantly replying with "I want to", you will never progress or do what you say. The lack of focus leaves you with the lack of progress. If you've always wanted to go on vacation, start your own business, buy a house, save money, don't say I want to. I'm sure you understand where I'm going with this. The more you say "I want to", the more you wont believe in yourself and the lack of belief others will see in you.

​       Why should you say "I'm going to"? It makes it certain, it makes it an objective and, it allows you to create goals and dates. The use of "I'm going to" will have you in the constant creation process to make it happen. For example, "Yeah, I'm going to go on vacation December 8th. I'm going to have such a great time there with my family". When you hear yourself say this it becomes practical. It becomes something real. You will feel the difference in your confidence level once you say it. People will believe in you more and you will become unquestionable. Your mind, day by day, will find a way to sculpt it and make it a reality for you. Your constant thoughts create the belief level you create of yourself. With a high belief level, you are willing to take action to accomplish more in your life. Actually think about it. Every time that you've said "I want to", how much focus did you really put on it? Starting today, don't question yourself. If you want something, say it and don't doubt yourself. The only way to get exactly what you want is if you have a plan, high belief level, and unbelievable work ethic to get it. Nothing comes easy. If you change, everything else will change around you. 
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Are You Ready For Change?

11/16/2016

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Let me ask you all something. When will you finally come to the realization that you need a change? You need to start asking yourself this question. If you don't like change, do you like picturing yourself in the same spot you are now for the next 10 years? Probably not. So why is it that you’re scared to put down things that are not contributing to evolving yourself? What are you waiting for? Are you waiting for that perfect moment of inspiration which may not show up? What about that individual who has crafted the path for you? If you wait for that day, you are sacrificing your family’s future and your own future. 
 
In life, sometimes you need something tragic to happen until you finally realize you need to change. But reading this now is going to prevent that. Also hopefully, it will allow you to understand you can't wait until that point because it may be too late. Change can open up many doors in your life and create a domino effect of unlimited possibilities. Changing yourself within, will allow you to be involved with new opportunities, jobs, people, and even circumstances. It reveals strengths and weaknesses you may have never known about like teaching others, writing, trades, business, investing, maybe fitness. You will never realize until you take the chance and try it out. I believe deep within, if you dig deep enough inside, you can at least find one thing you are good at. Once you figure that out, act on it instantly. If it doesn't work, learn from your failures. The only way to get better is to fail. If you fall hard enough, you will find a way to get back up.
 
Are you going to be that person who lays in bed every day hoping and dreaming with many ideas, but their life is not congruent to their dreams and aspirations? Or are you going to be that person who wakes up every day with a why, a reason for change, and act on it as soon as possible? Change can resolve the lack of progress you may not be seeing and progress is what makes humans happy. Without progress, you aren't moving. 

 
Let's be honest. Life can get really hard at times, but this is exactly what you want. You may not believe that, but you will understand it once you go through the hardship. The darkness within you is what pushes you every day. Look for the darkness. Find that little bit of uncomfort or unhappiness inside you and use that to push you through your life. Me and you are something great put on this planet. If you use your time effectively, learn new skills, and never be afraid of change, you will live a very fulfilling life.   

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Motivation Monday Ft Ct Fletcher & Idris Elba

11/14/2016

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Why Worrying Will Destruct You And Your Ability To Achieve Your Goals

11/10/2016

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      Worrying is one of the main factors of why people never upgrade and become more than they currently are. The unconscious thought of making up a circumstance in your mind is putting up walls all around your life. Walls of destruction, walls of doubt, and walls of failure. These walls block you from thinking outside the box, being creative, or even trying something new. In order to become something more than you are, you need to be able to see that there is room for growth or room for improvement.

​      One thing that the majority of people do is let their past dictate their future by creating a mindset of strictly negative thought patterns. These people let
every circumstance in their past control them. It's almost like a 90 pound weight on your shoulder that you can never remove and this holds you down from seeing opportunity when its present. Worrying is a main factor why people don't follow their passions. It's a reason why relationships fall apart. Worrying creates anxiety. But the biggest downfall is that it puts people in their death bed.

      Today is the day you stop worrying, today is the day you drop all your thoughts of doubt and disbelief and start making an impact in your own life and others as well to see big increments of change. Once you shift your mind from "what if", "but", "I don't think I can", "this isn't real", "why is this happening to me", "I'm not smart enough", "I'm not fit enough", to,  "I believe in you and me", "everything that is happening is in my favor", "I dictate where my life takes me" is when you will eliminate stress and embrace the venture of happiness.  

 
      Instead of focusing on the negatives, get your ass up and stop being lazy. Go to the gym if you are worrying about fitness. Make a budget plan and work harder to find a way to create another source of income if you are struggling financially. Sacrifice the little things that are not important to you in your life and big rewards will flow your way. Small sacrifices can include making new friends if you have negative influences in your life. You don't want people who hold you down, only uplift your soul and being. This can also include TV, games, drugs or fast food. Life change starts within. Believe in every word you say. The only person that knows yourself better than you is you.

​      What has brought you to this moment today is every decision and thought you've made so far until now. Either you slowly start to make some conscious changes or you continually repeat what you've always done to continually get the same result. You are the one who manifests your path, no one else.  
Drop all the worries
that are circulating your mind. They are not real circumstances unless you create it. 
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Kid Cudi Speaks On How Important Education Is and How He Reached Success In Life.

11/1/2016

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Where You Are Now To Where You Want To Be

10/26/2016

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      Absolutely anyone can take their life and make either a big change or a small change. It's honestly based on how determined you are for it. Starting now, just take a second to look at who you are. Once you have realized that you are something special made on this earth, you'll be right on your way to be making a difference. We are human beings, not animals, not trees, not even a fish - we are human beings. We have the opportunity and ability to change our life in a split of a second. All it takes is the comprehensive understanding to make the change. What is it going to take for you to understand the seriousness of making the switch? Sometimes it's hitting rock bottom for most people, either you are sick, broke or even un healthy. 90% of individuals will blame others for their circumstances in life, but it's not true. You must, starting today, take 100% RESPONSIBILITY of everything that happens in your life.

      You are the conductor of your life. You literally decide if you are to do physically well, financially well or emotionally well. Don't let circumstances control you, you control them. Once you understand that you manifest every aspect of your life from your past thoughts and actions, is when you can start to indulge into the growth factor in your life. Where you are today and who you are today is a result of your past actions and thinking patterns. This is how it is and how it will always be. If you are looking for that one perfect moment to appear for someone to say "Take my hand let me show you the way", you are out of your damn mind. There is absolutely no perfect moment for anything; you create the moment. You are the only person that will take you from the point you are now to the point where you want to be.  

      Make a decision and control your thought patterns. Controlling thought patterns or your un concious mind is such an important factor to maintaining the belief that you need in order to make a switch and stay constant with it. First is, what are you filtering your mind with? Your surroundings, maybe friends, family, acquaintances, colleagues? Are they feeding you negative or positive energy? What are you listening to? What are you reading? You need to keep this glass cup you have clear. What I mean by clear is make sure this cup (your mind) is being filtered with gracious, nutritional information everyday that is creating growth. This will allow you to prosper and achieve your life endeavors. All of this is great, but it's not the main factor. The main factor is action. Without action there are no results. Results are what push you forward to continue and they give you the ability to believe in yourself to continue to prosper. Life is like a light switch. You can be filled with information, knowledge or even critical important facts, but none of this matters when the light switch is off. Once you make the decision to turn the light switch on, is when the room lights up and you can see the big difference.
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4 Critical Tips To A Strong Relationship

10/23/2016

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1) Never Forget About The Little Things
The most important concept in a strong and healthy relationship is continuing to not forget how important the little things are. Think about this, when you first started dating your girlfriend or boyfriend, what gave your relationship that spark of reliability, comfort, and excitement? What was the most important things in which kept you guys happy that maybe you are not doing anymore? Seriously, think about it before it's too late. Did you call him or her at a certain time? Did you say certain words or phrases? Maybe you guys don't go out as much as you use too? Do you communicate as much as you want? What about celebrating special occasions? This is important to realize because feelings in the relationship can be diminished when you stop focusing on why you fell in love with your significant other. 

2) Let Them Know What You Expect
Expectations in a relationship are critical. They create the belief that your significant other should achieve what you have set out in your mind, and these can be created by your values and standards. Once you get into a relationship, let them know what you want out of this or what you are looking forward too. Make sure you are in a right state in your relationship to talk about this stuff. This is 100 percent dependent on if you feel confident in doing so, and when you are ready to express your thoughts on this matter. Things will fall apart, literally break down if you expectation are not met, month by month, or maybe even year by year. So once you are ready, let the know what you expect and develop a strong internal connection.

3) Sexual Connection
If you don't give your significant other the sexual affection they require, they will move on or maybe the relationship will just become tremendously boring. Give them what they want, or they will sure find someone else to do so. If one day you are not in the mood but your significant other is, absorb yourself in the moment to satisfy them. It makes the biggest difference. You want your partner to feel like they are experiencing everything they ever wanted, if not they will revert their thoughts and think about the single life. GIVE them what they want sexually, if they are truly important to you.

4) Always Support Each other
No matter what the circumstance is, if its for a positive outcome, always support one another. This shows that you are able to do what you want in your life and have someone right there next to you. Everyone has a dream, but if your lover doesn't support it, than why is he or she your true lover? When you are in a relationship you need someone who can fuel you, and be the gas to your car, and not the weight on your shoulder. Don't allow your self to be the tree, that stands there blocking everything, be the car who isn't scared of adventure or risk. Follow your dreams, and embrace yourself to the fact that you will motivate and develop confidence that your boyfriend or girlfriend knows that they are doing. Give them criticism if necessary, but don't over do it.


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                 5 Simple Steps To Reduce Stress

10/21/2016

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1) What Is It That You Are Focusing On?
Everyone has problems going on in their life. Anywhere from money issues, relationship problems, health, disease or even family trouble. Recognize that you are not the only one. Look at it this way. You can either look at the reality and understand what is happening, or you can make your own perception on what you want it to be. If you focus on the issues, the issue will never disappear, it will continue to appear in your mind unexpectedly even though you wish not to be going through this. Call this the "Law Of Attraction". The universe doesn't know what you want or don't want. It gives you "The Predominate thoughts you consistently think every second of the day". To learn more about this watch the movie or read the book "The Secret" by Rhonda Brynes. 

2) Gratitude
Be grateful for what you already have. Every morning you wake up, thank yourself to be living the life that you have. Understand that not everyone gets your type of opportunity. The more you are grateful for, the more you appreciate the little things in life. This will allow you to wake up with a smile every morning, instead of viewing every circumstance and person whose here to attack you.

3) Get Rid Of Clutter
Any type of mess or clutter that is either in your car, house, bag or locker has to be organized as soon as possible. This can be the substantial difference between being calm and relaxed, over stressed and annoyed. Clutter exhausts the mind, it overwhelms your senses to think critically or creatively. Just a while ago UCLA inspected 32 Los Angeles mothers and realized that when dealing with clutter and their personal property, they had a tremendous increase on their stress hormone levels (Mikael Cho). Clean everything, and allow your mind to be clear of all negative thoughts. 

​4) Eat Well
The saying "you are what you eat" is 100% true. If you put garbage in your body every single day, your skin, body and confidence will show that. Greasy, and sugary foods put you at a higher risk of diabetes and obesity. Eat healthy, allow your body to indulge in nutritional valued foods. It's as easy as one apple a day. Just by eating the healthy foods, you are allowing the body to absorb vitamins like vitamin C, which maintains bones, and blood vessels, Vitamin D, that helps create production of skin pigment, Vitamin B3 the helps convert food into glucose which the body uses for the production of energy, or even vitamin B6 which plays a tremendous role in our metabolism. Start eating healthy today, and allow your body to feel good and look good. 

5) Surround Yourself With Positive People
Positive people can show you the brighter side of things. If you have a problem, they are most likely willing to help you. This can be close friends, if not, family members, teachers or professionals. They can build your confidence level up and create a belief in yourself maybe that you didn't originally have. Don't allow yourself to build up an extensive amount of none healthy inner thoughts. This can lead to long term stress. The faster you find a resolution for your problem, the faster you can feel better and move on with your life, the faster you can consume the life of positive thinking again, and living calmly. These 5 steps are critical, embrace them, and you will truly live a life that is stress free. 





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The 5 Best Tips to Nail Your Job Interview

10/20/2016

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1. Arrive 30 Minutes Before
  • Demonstrates skills of time management, taking initiative, and responsibility.
2. ​Know Exactly What You are Truly Applying for
  • Read the description of job position you are trying to secure
  • Understand exactly what personal qualities and skills you must own to earn this position
  • Understand how you can benefit the company with what you are capable of
3. Display Skills 
  • Explain and give examples (at least 3)
  • For example "I obtain very strong leadership skills. In my old position I was able to organize and coordinate meetings, present new information on a daily basis, while demonstrating all the skills required to perform each job the right way for others to follow.
4. Presentation Matters 
  • Dress according to the job you are trying to secure. If you are not sure, do research before hand
  • Don't over dress
  • Have good posture, don't slouch, speak up and show confidence
  • Make sure to smile. Show them pearly whites. But also know when to be serious
  • Imagine yourself at your best. What does that look like?
  • Always shake their hand firmly, and greet the employer as soon as you encounter them. WITH CONFIDENCE
​5. Leave On A Good Note
  • Tell them you are excited to get started
  • Ensure them that you will be seeing them again
  • Be polite
  • Shake the employers hand firm
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15 Steps to Build Ultimate Confidence

10/19/2016

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1) Dress Accordingly 
  • Depending where you are, dress according to the circumstance and environment. Dress at your best at all times.
2) Listen to Uplifting Music 
  • Music that makes you smile. Everyone has their own genre (Hip Hop, Rap, House, Country, Rock and Roll, Metal, Classic, Religious, ect.)
  • Nature sounds
  • Binaural Beats
3) Put Yourself in Situations of Growth 
  • Uncomfortable situations, things you wouldn't usually do
  • Fail multiple times, and learn from each failure
  • Push yourself past your regular standards (the way you think or daily tasks).
  • Take more responsibility and grow your leadership skills
4) Meditation
  • Sit down or lie down in a quiet area  
  • Make no effort to control breathing, just breathe in and out naturally 
  • Focus your attention on your breathing and how your body moves with each breath 
  • Turn on Binaural Beats, listen to relaxing music or sit in the pitch quiet
5) Exercise 
  • Go to the gym on a weekly basis
  • Incorporate at-home exercises in your daily routine
  • Always make sure to stretch before and after every workout
6) Think About Where You are Going Rather Than Where You are​
  • Your current circumstance right now is irrelevant
  • Everything you've done until this date is a result of your past decisions. Starting now, you can change everything.
  • From today on, every decision or thought you make will have some sort of impact in your future, no matter how big or small it's going to be.
  • Focus ONLY on your future
7) Self Talk
  • Every morning you wake up, ensure to yourself that you are great, that you have a life of abundance. Repeat this in your head multiple times.  
  • Have gratitude, be thankful for every aspect of your life. When things go wrong, talk to yourself internally. Either out loud or in your head. "I'm great, I'm handsome, I'm beautiful, I feel success, I am success, I am thankful for my family, I am thankful for my friends, I am thankful for my career or job, I am thankful for the country I live in". 
  • This is not a prayer, this is a self motivation tactic so you can unconsciously realize how great you really are.
  • Guarantee if you master this, you will be able to believe you can accomplish anything and everything.
8) Self Development
  • Gradually develop your self knowledge, education, psychology, self awareness, communication skills, ect.
  • Read books and listen to audios on self help, finance, effective people, powerful laws, how to influence people or literally anything that truly reflects what you want to achieve in your life.
  • Learn from others. Failures and successful people. "Grow your mind, and your income follows", Jim rohn.
  • Follow people that have what you want.  
9) Walk Faster/Good Posture
  • Become more productive
  • Less stress
  • Look good and feel confident
  • Gain power, which reduces anxiety and creates dominance
  • Lose weight and contribute to a higher self confidence level
10) Having Gratitude 
  • This allows you to realize what you have in life, and how much you should be grateful for.
  • Once you start to be thankful and grateful for what you have now and not disappointed, you are able to take your life to the next step.
  • All it takes is understanding that you have more than a lot of people on this planet.
  • Everyone has an equal amount of opportunity, if you are viewing this information, trust me you are at an advantage.
11) Presentation 
  • How do you present yourself? You are always presenting your image. Every time you speak to someone, your presenting. Whenever you go to an interview, you are representing yourself by your presentation. If you are making a phone call to an important client, friend or family member, this is also a form of presentation. 
  • Presenting can be the factors between if you succeed or not.
  • The way you dress reflects your presentation, your posture, your eye contact, the tone of voice you use in certain circumstances, your ability deal with decisions, your vocabulary, the way you dress and the cleaniness of your hygiene. If you can take care of this, and implement these 15 steps. I guarentee you can do whatever you desire truly in your life. 
12) Compliment Others
  • Humans love to be complimented for what they do. They love to be recognized. So if you are trying to make friends or influence others and not be on the cocky side of the spectrum, compliment these people. Show them that you care for them. Make individuals understand you support them and are excited for their achievements.
  • Belief is like the gas in your car. Without it, there's no action or firm decision. You literally will always be at a stand still.
  • Belief is the building blocks to your life, without it, it will collapse. 
  • In order for you to strive for maximum potential, you need to create a belief system by learning more, observing, and understanding that anything that was ever impossible in this world has been changed by certain people. This is because they changed their philosophy of a certain area from saying "Its impossible, it can't be done" to "I can break this record, and I will achieve this". Belief is the battery and the gas that's going to keep you going and will continue to be the reason why you wake up.
14) Fear of Failure 
  • Fear is made up. It's all in your head. 
  • Overcoming your biggest fear is usually the result of realizing your true strengths.
​15) Take Risks
  • The most successful people on this planet have taken the biggest risks.
  • Without big sacrifices and risks, there will never be a big reward.
  • Don't be average, be the person who is beyond average.
  • You will do whatever it takes, from this day on, to get whatever you want.
  • Go all in.
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4 Steps to Achieve a Desired Goal                                  Inspired by "Jim Rohn"

10/17/2016

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1) Be Specific About What You Want to Achieve
    A lot of individuals and people in society are honestly concerned or confused on what they want to get out of life, who they should become, and even what they are here for. If you want to be specific, put your head down and focus. Figure out if you want more money? More Success? More love? Better Marks in school? You want family, colleagues or friends to look up to you? You want your own business? Figure it out, and write it down. Once you've done that figure out a realistic time frame, than make a long term goal for yourself, 1 year? 2 years? whatever is realistic to you. Than with that you want to break it down into monthly/weekly goals so you can take minor steps in order to achieve the smaller disciplines so you can eventually focus on the bigger ones. "Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishments" Jim Rohn. Small disciplines can include, cleaning, organizing, eating healthy or even getting good sleep. Big Disciplines include building a business, focusing on sales as an employee, moving up on the ladder of success in your organization, or even just self development. Jim rohn says "A failure is few errors in judgement repeated everyday"

2) Act, Don't Wait
     Take action right away; the time is never the right time. If you wait for the perfect moment to come in order to start something, you've already lost out on the opportunity. Winners take action right away. Make a decision, don't let anyone put assumptions in your head because they are scared that you will achieve more than them.  You need to stay committed and disciplined to these actions, don't rush success. If you put in the work everyday, the universe will repay you. If you stop for one day, remember "If you rest to long the weeds will take over the garden" Jim Rohn. You need to dominate everyday, there is no other option. Do what others won't do today in order to have what others won't have tomorrow. Just remember this, "Success is a few small disciplines practiced everyday" Jim Rohn.

3) Surround Yourself with Success
     
Right now you want to look around, literally look around. "You are the average of the 5 people that you spend the most time with" Jim Rohn. If the people that surround you in your life have pennies in their pocket, are doing drugs, don't have good jobs, lazy, and they really don't care, you are the average of these 5 individuals and you need to realize that. As soon as you realize this, you slowly start to move away from these old habits and ways so you can start developing yourself, by surrounding yourself in an abundance of success. First step, start LISTENING to audios, READING books, and COMMUNICATING with others that have what you want. You want to be a successful investor? Read a book on Warren Buffet. You want to become a successful basketball player? Read and listen to people that have exactly what you desire. "We become what we think about most" Brian Tracy. It's not just about reading and listening, go learn it from your own personal experience. Get out there and fail. The only way to learn is by failing. Life is full of experiences. You don't do what they do to get what they have, you do what they do, you go through what they went through, you feel how they felt and then just maybe if you did so, you'll get everything you have ever imagined.

4) Ask Yourself If You Are Happy?
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oney and success doesn't come from only desiring these materialistic components. What really attracts success in your life is if you are passionate or happy with what you are doing. People sense these characteristics about certain individuals. If you really want money, what is it that you are passionate about? If you figure this out, you will activate a result in passive cash flow. What makes you happy?  What do you love doing? That will be a result of achieving the desired goals. "Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue all that you want" Jim Rohn. If you want others to follow you or to be inspired by what you are doing, you need them to be able to look at you and say in their head, "I want to be like this guy". So go follow your passion, be happy, and the money will come after.

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